How to Improve Your Personality?
There are few among us who don’t strive every day to improve their personality.
The ways we try to improve ourselves may range from minor external changes, such as a new suit or a new look, to more serious internal changes, as we try to improve our outlook on life or our ability to interact with other people.
The latter, obviously, are more difficult than, say, going to the hair salon.
Still, it’s not unrealistic to try to improve your character and personality. Below are just a few easy tips on how to improve your personality:
1. Find qualities in those around you.
Look at everyone around you and find something to like about them. What makes this person likeable or admirable? What attaches you to them? Let them know about it, and boost their self-esteem. Meanwhile, try to promote those qualities in yourself as well.
2. There’s a lot to like about you, too.
Don’t forget that you’re interesting and admirable yourself. There’s nothing wrong with patting yourself on the back occasionally, since it can help us approach other people. Make it a foregone conclusion that other people should enjoy interacting with you. (how to do this?)
3. We all have our flaws.
That includes you! No one is perfect, and simply admitting that fact can be a huge step. If we are too hard on ourselves, or complete perfectionists, we can often do more harm than good.
4. Mingle with positive thinkers.
The last thing you need when trying to improve yourself are people who think improvement is impossible, who look at the entire world, at themselves, and at you, with nothing but pessimism. Choose your company wisely; their own outlook will affect your attitude towards life. Find friends who will build you up, not burden you with doubts.
5. People are interesting.
It’s a simple fact that bears repeating: you can find something interesting about almost anyone, even those who seem ordinary at first glance. Each person is a universe. Show genuine curiosity about the people you meet!
6. Embrace the new.
Don’t let yourself stagnate. Always make a point of exploring new things, and you’ll discover unexpected talents and qualities in yourself. Take up a new hobby, or open an unfamiliar book. Take a dance class. The possibilities are endless.
7. Set out for uncharted territory.Go explore a new part of the world. Sometimes a change of scenery can offer a fresh perspective on ourselves, and on life. Go somewhere you’ve never been, or redecorate your home.
These are just a few techniques for improving your personality. Self-improvement is a constant process; you’ll never wake up one morning and realize that you’re perfect. Growth is an ongoing part of life.
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please give me somes tips. to how to improve my personality.
my post is recepitiniost.
Besides tips mentioned above , i would like to add following contribution
concentrate on one task at a time.
improve ur communication skill
participate n religious activities and literay functons
read poetry, comarative study of religion, study history
try to spend time with elders of the family, u will learn a lot from their experiences
have regular sports
use strong phrases of local language while speaking english
Hello, actually i want to know that how am i improve my personality and how to improve spoken english. Plz give me suggestion for improve my personality and spoken english. thank you
Hey there Sikchha…
Well, how to improve your personality? You got this website. Spend sometime around and you're guaranteed to find helpful information.
http://successelixir.net
For English improvement, I'm not the right guy for that, but see this comment I wrote to another reader:
Thanks for passing by.
Kaled
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these tips are very good
these tips are very good.I think everyone should improve our personality.Let's go!
No doubt these tips are good to improve your personality but one basic tip is missing and that is your "dress". How you dress up, what colours your wear, combinition between your suite and neck ties, creasless shirt and so on. Your personality's first impression is your dress and a sweet smile on your face. Also the way you walk – the more grecefully you walk, the more impressing you will look. Your hair nicly combed, your shoes shinning and a nice perfume on your dress. Keep adding and you can find more and more ways to improve your personality.
i read all t tips given in this site all also implement in myself and i see myself that my self confidance had improved and i see that people around me happy with me. my friends like my company and try to come with me . so no doubt this tips are very good to improve to our personalty.
these are very good tips\ comment for improving personality. i will just say every one should follow/act on it.
Rizwan Shah form Karachi Pakistan
Your Tips Are Very Super.And How Improve Our Speech Style.
Pls give me some advice to develop personalty
Hello, actually i want to know that how am i improve my personality and how to improve spoken english. Plz give me suggestion for improve my personality and spoken english. thank you
please give me somes tips. to how to improve my personality.
my post is recepitiniost
i can,t talk in front of people what should i do
@parth: english comes by speaking with out hesitation. try to speak your self standing in front of mirror. you can develop slowly. read new words and try to frame sentences with new words.
please give me some tips that how to improve my personility.I have been working for 3 years as a Asst commercial Manager & I studied in Master of Economics but I don’t have any idea about that which field will be accurate according to my skill & which way I will have to selected for me in a future .also please suggest to me that If I will take an admission in MBA it is a acceptably to me or not ?
please advice as soon as possible.
Hi Bisma, thanks for posting your question.
Well, I'm afraid that I can't tell you whether to take an MBA or not, or any similar advice. Why? Because I don't know you, your mindset, your background… etc. But, you can do some personality tests that can give you a detailed report on your best career options.
See #3 on this post…
http://successelixir.net/changing-careerstudy/
Good luck!
Kaled
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Hi, in fact I am very anxious about my future because my personnality is not encouraging at all. This is my last year in studying and i am supposed to find some work next year. when I meet people or even with my family members i most of the time keep silent and rarly talk only when somebody ask me about something. this is how I used to behave since I was a child. I feel very shy to speak in front of people and I feel very confused to the extent that I forget what i want to say. I would really very grateful if you can give me any advice because i see that my problem is very serious for me. Thank you in advance .
I want to impress a maneger by my talking style & behavior so I need your help. plz guide me.I am a marketing personal in a software company.
Hello sir………………….
I am a B.tech student of final year. I have 74% in 10th, less
than 60% in 12th & average number(65%) in B.tech. i work
hard but do not get satisfactory result. I am interested to do
an MBA. My friends say that i have good personalty and
communication skill but i think, still a lot of things have to be
improved including study and personality within me. So taking
all above things in consideration please show me the correct
path.
By analyzing my previous records, Please tell me that Is
my decision of doing mba RIGHT or WRONG ????
waiting for your suggestion……..
Naveen……..
i am retail pharmacist, i have the ability to bring smile on patients face. but, i want to enhance my ability of patients counseling, to bring hope and courage to patients. guide me plz.
hay buddy for improving english try to speak with ur frnds, parents nd others…
read books….
Hello All,
Ya it is very important for people who work to improve personality. But Fatema, in some case we are not comfortable to speak up in front of family but we do with friends.
Always make your mind and assume situation that what going to happen to you. For example, tomorrow is this programme and this and that people will come…make your mind. how will you responese for some special question…or how will you going to start to talk about some issues…for example with your age girl school, uni,beauty etc etc….elder people like to talk about their past so try to pull that but that would be one to one……and so on….
bye hope u will be improved by this tips….
as u r recepitioniost. so u must hav good personality. personality does not means to look good. the way of talking, the way of dressing, the way of looking, smiling……
many thing are included so can i know in which area u want to improve yourself so i would be able to help you out.
I AM ASTUDENT OF AGRICULTURE AND DOING GRADUATION I LACK CONFIDENCE INFRONT OF MY TEACHERS AND GIRLS CLASSMATES HOW CAN I IMPROVE CONFIDENCE AND SPEAKING POWER
please let me know how can i improve my personality
Please let me know how can i improve my personality & english
hi i'm agila
i'm lots of intrest in speaking english and improve my communication skills.pl give some tips for me.
Guys,
I will collect several techniques and resource for improving your English skills (including speaking English), and I'll post a link to it here.
You can subscribe to these comments (below) to get any updates.
Kaled
@sangita singh: To improve your personality you should first respect urself, love ur self, know the self actualization and self-realization.
thanks,i had writen the words very strong in my mind
these are good tips. how can i control my self when i become angary
@Sonia: i agree with u . in fact i did such and got success
To Improve your personality
Be a better listener.
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
Read more and expand your interests.
The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others. When you meet new people it gives you the opportunity to share what you know and to exchange your views with them.
Be a good conversationalist.
This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
Have an Opinion.
There is nothing more tiresome than trying to talk to someone who has no opinion on anything. A conversation has nowhere to go if you have nothing to expound on. If, however, you have an uncommon point of view or differing opinion, you are more interesting and stimulating to be in the company of (unless you're a know-it-all, of course). A unique outlook expands everyone's perspective.
Meet New People.
Make the effort to meet new people especially those unlike you. It not only exposes you to different cultures and alternative ways of doing things, it broadens your horizons.
Be yourself.
The next most tiresome thing after having no opinions is trying to be something you're not. Molding yourself in order to fit in, or be accepted, usually backfires. Since each of us is unique, expressing that uniqueness is what makes us interesting. Attempting to be a carbon copy of someone else not only falls flat, but reveals a lack of authenticity.
Have a positive outlook and attitude.
Who wants to be around people who are negative, complain a lot, or have nothing good to say? In fact, most of us run when we see them coming. Instead, be the kind of upbeat person who lights up a room with your energy when you enter it. Do it by looking for the best in people and things. Smile warmly, spread good cheer, and enliven others with your presence.
Be fun and see the humorous side of life.
Everyone enjoys the company of someone who makes them laugh or smile. Look for the humorous or quirky side in a situation – there always is one. When you are fun and lighthearted people are naturally attracted to you.
Be supportive of others.
Being supportive is probably the most endearing quality you can integrate into your personality. Just as you yourself welcome it, be the support for others when they need it. We all love a cheerleader in our corner; someone who is encouraging, believes in us and helps pick us up when we're down.
Have Integrity and treat people with respect.
Being honest and true to your word will bring you the admiration, respect and gratitude of others. Nothing improves a person's personality more than integrity and respect – respect for others, as well as respect for yourself.
Well, Ireally appreciate it and more knowledge I gain through this.
Thanks for this
sir how can i become an encyclopedia to others
@akash: why do you wanna be an encyclopedia to others?! Pick a niche & become an "encyclopedia" in that niche only. You can't be everything to everybody.
how to improve my confidence leval and persnailty.
Hy sonia i really appricaite on your tips, but what i think everythig is depends upon the situtation, it could be change on situation, what u r facing….
Well, Ireally appreciate it
hello ,your tips are of great help.
a.oa, i want to ask you that if one has no confident in every field of life what should he do to ensure his confident?
hi! i want to ask you that if someone did not speak to anyone in the class because of having no confidence and he was said for the presentation in the class to explain some topic, how can he make his first presentation in his life memorable and what should he do to build his confidence to make his presentation impressive for the listners?
i have the( bihari) or regional ascent in my english & hindi language which is not acceptable for me bcoz i m working on the reception, so please suggest me how i will improve it.
These tips are really encouraging the personality of someone.
But here, i will add
So be confident to yourself,you should must make try to not say your deficiency, weakness.
never give yourself in air.but be humble.and be approachable to that some one who want to approach you.
Never say odd words to any one even for sake of fun or tease him or her.
@Sonia:
These tips are really encouraging the personality of someone.
But here, i will add
So be confident to yourself,you should must make try to not say your deficiency, weakness.
never give yourself in air.but be humble.and be approachable to that some one who want to approach you.
Never say odd words to any one even for sake of fun or tease him or her.
Do not try to find love but try to make yourself as lovable.
you’ll never wake up one morning and realize that you’re perfect.
hence……there is always some need for improvement.on your next day you will feel/realize that that what you had committed mistake yesterday of for yesterday,
man should be well dresd. Be supportive of others.
fatima how can u say its help u
i m a student. i can speak english in front of my family member but i get nervous in front of others .plese tell the solution of this problems
@ayush: The best website I know to help you (free), is this one: http://www.livemocha.com/ I didn't use it personally, but all of my friends recommend it.
@Sikchha Agrawal:
Dear Sikchha,
you can learn english through any tutorials or try to learn English any books.basically you need practice to improve it
be yourself.
stop thinkin wat oders will think about you if u do a particular thing.
enjoy yourself.
read more newspaper and try to talk in english to people who know english.
and when you are reading the newspaper read the positive articles.
you will improve your personality and english both.
why u want to be a encyclopedia to others.
people can buy it in market.
so chill bro.
hey cherry.
first improve your english.
and be confident.
and be along with positive thinkers.
k?
well good tips thanks a lot
I am a student. I want to improve my personality. How do it?
These are indeed simple but good steps to create a positive attitude and thereby maintaining the growth of our thinking personality. But its the complete personality development that one needs to achieve.
i am a govt employer born on 15 Jan 1980. i would like to improve my personality and knowledge and english and i would like to connect with this type of people. please send me information and this type of people. thanking you
Naresh
Agila
Hai
i am also intersest to speak english and write a big manner if you want to join me then you can
Naresh
Thanks
I am a student of BBA 4th sem, but still I am afraid of presentation.Even I can't introduce myself properly towards others.It's not because of I don't know it's because of I afraid.So how can I improve myself ?
@Sonia: Below are just a few easy tips on how to improve your personality:
1. Find qualities in those around you.
Look at everyone around you and find something to like about them. What makes this person likeable or admirable? What attaches you to them? Let them know about it, and boost their self-esteem. Meanwhile, try to promote those qualities in yourself as well.
2. There’s a lot to like about you, too.
Don’t forget that you’re interesting and admirable yourself. There’s nothing wrong with patting yourself on the back occasionally, since it can help us approach other people. Make it a foregone conclusion that other people should enjoy interacting with you. (how to do this?)
3. We all have our flaws.
That includes you! No one is perfect, and simply admitting that fact can be a huge step. If we are too hard on ourselves, or complete perfectionists, we can often do more harm than good.
4. Mingle with positive thinkers.
The last thing you need when trying to improve yourself are people who think improvement is impossible, who look at the entire world, at themselves, and at you, with nothing but pessimism. Choose your company wisely; their own outlook will affect your attitude towards life. Find friends who will build you up, not burden you with doubts.
5. People are interesting.
It’s a simple fact that bears repeating: you can find something interesting about almost anyone, even those who seem ordinary at first glance. Each person is a universe. Show genuine curiosity about the people you meet!
6. Embrace the new.
Don’t let yourself stagnate. Always make a point of exploring new things, and you’ll discover unexpected talents and qualities in yourself. Take up a new hobby, or open an unfamiliar book. Take a dance class. The possibilities are endless.
7. Set out for uncharted territory.
Go explore a new part of the world. Sometimes a change of scenery can offer a fresh perspective on ourselves, and on life. Go somewhere you’ve never been, or redecorate your home.
These are just a few techniques for improving your personality. Self-improvement is a constant process; you’ll never wake up one morning and realize that you’re perfect. Growth is an ongoing part of life.
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Those are nice simple ways to keep in mind, that shall develop a positive and strong personality in the long run.
@Aditya:
well personality is a very vast thing , we cant give a general answer, your question is too vague, tell specific problem which u think u r feeling with your personality to have
@ayush:
this is a problem faced by many ppl around here, this arise when u try to impres others from your english, a very good tip that i myself followed n took control on my hesitation is that , think all people in front of whom u want to speak are just the beggers who wanna beg money from you, n u have to choose which one of them u wanna choose to give that
Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis was considered one of the most charming women in the world because she cultivated the skill of being an exceptional listener. She was known for the way she would look a person in the eyes, hang on their every word, and make them feel important. There is nothing more appealing than having someone listen to you intently making you feel like you're the only person in the world.
This relates to how much you read and know. Once you have much to contribute, learn how to talk about it with others. No one can read about or know everything, so it's refreshing to learn from others those things we don't have the time to about read ourselves. If you happen to be shy, join a group like Toastmasters that encourages you to talk about what you know.
I go throuhg ur problem. And this problem is not only yours but many people have same problem how to improve english. Acording to me english is not the problem first you need to ask yourself are you perfect in your mother tongue, are you cofident enough because if you want to speak english you should have that confidence otherwise you pay thousands of rupees in spoken english classes you will definitely learn english but always hesitate to speak it.
Realy it is very apriciable i read ur answer and i come to know what a positive attitude you have about life. Realy how simply the people like you narrats there thoughts and make it very simple to understand to other also hats off dear.
@Harry John<
Hi Mr. John,
All your tips gives me a confidance to improve my personality. i will try to follow your tips.
This are all very basic but very improtant. thanks
Hi Suchita Nice to hear from u. So far improving english is concerned.to my experience. there r 3 things to improve.1.Clear ur basic grammar 2. Vocabular-by reading news paper 3. practice – joining a group that can correct ur mistakes when u speak wrong english & try to speak everyting in english.
Regards- Naveen Raj
@sangita singh: hi I am debasish, i wanna give u some suggetion regarding personality developement.
a-try to make yourself acceptable to others.
b-try to modify yourself according to situation.
c-make your sense of humours better than ever.
d-repir the couse of less confidance. best of luck.
@Sonia:
hi can you help me to improve my english???
Hope you will reply
How can i improve my personality to face UPSC board?
nice tips &useful tips
@sangita singh: please give me tips how we improve our personality my post is counsalar
hii diz iz lovely n m a clg going gal n wants to improve my personality as well as my dressing n i want a perfect look fr mee plzz help
@sangita singh: learn to like the things that need to be done
hello,
i agree with u that our dressing play important part in our personility
you are right i agree wild u. confedent is first step in speaking english. if we have no confident we cant speak english in our whole life. but the main problem is that how we increase our confident to speak english.
be confident in ur self then u see how people will be attracted and sy positive only because i u will think positive then only positive will happen to u.
Look at everyone around you and find something to like about them. What makes this person likeable or admirable? What attaches you to them? Let them know about it, and boost their self-esteem. Meanwhile, try to promote those qualities in yourself as well.
Don’t forget that you’re interesting and admirable yourself. There’s nothing wrong with patting yourself on the back occasionally, since it can help us approach other people. Make it a foregone conclusion that other people should enjoy interacting with you.
Hi, nice suggestion, thanks
@Kaled: yesssssssss……..
ways to improve yourself:
1. be a better person
2. be yourself
3. have a positive outlook and attitude
4. be fun and see the humorous side of life
5. read more and expand your interest
I thilnk everyone has weakness in any area but this could be converted into as a strong.we should not give up in any condltlion and you will have to strive for the changes .
@sangita singh: Not only for you it's in general, people should be humble, polite, honest & less talkingbut it must be specific, understandable & meaningful. Never show power, if you are right people will automatically realize & will praise you.
hello,how can i improve my confidence,i usually become nervous during public speaking and even i do not find words to express anything
frndzzzzz ths tips are very usefull for me it gave some confidence to me….. thankss to all…
@sangita singh: just start loving people around u.no matter who they are,, so that you can proudly say dat u are nt in love bt love is in u,,,,,,,,,,,,
there is nothing to worry about it. those who have passed UPSC was feeling like you are feeling now, its not a big thing to be fear of and u have to take it easy. Once you start taking advice from the elders everything will be alright!
hai i joined for an mba course .now they are asking to do presentation in front of the class for a particular subject .but i have a large stage fear when the pupils stare at me .my confidence slowly become down and finally become nervous. i am also not fluent in english language .what should i do?
this is the very informative site
it will certainly improve our Personality If We follow up these discipline
with Regards for all post.
hi i am an mba student and i want to know how to develop my personality and communication skills ,,,,,,,,,,,, awaiting for your relpy
in a way all our personalities are much and such the same we all have our insecurities our doubts our worries we all want to fit in..yet be unique..and we all want to be loved and i say that we should stop trying to improve ourselves and accept ourselves for who we are instead of all this insecurities and caring all too much what people think of us and be a confident individual person and if you do this i guarantee people will like you better for it.
I am very short tempered person in small matters i often becomes nervous i have lack of confidence and often thinks very much even in small matters so everyone makes fun of my attitude.how to get rid of all of these.
@Naveen kumar:
Try hard to get into a good institute for MBA………….
speaking is easy….. following is very tuff…!
Hi…. Sonia thnx 4 ur nyc n encrouging tips thx alot dear….. Again Hi guys….. Plz tell me… How can i improve my english or mainly (communication)… Actualy i m intrested to talk wid new peoples n also intrested to make a frnds but i m confused what i talk with them….. I dnt knw y i m hesitate to talk…. N how can i remove my hesitation….. I hope u guys help me… Ny way thnk in advance….:-)
Hi… i am an mba student and i want to know how to develop my personality and communication skills, i m very shy.
there is no need to be encyclopedia to other, an encyclopedia costs 100 . ur human being dont waste ur energy to memorize the
facts to impress others. you was created some thing more than that.ask some well wishers if you are confused about your improvement .
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@tassawar Ali:
Hi Ali,
your suggessions are the finest I found. Its the key steps to get a good personality..
Regards
Anup Mazumdar
hi. I want to improve my personality. plz tell me how can improve my self esteem..and i also had hesitate spoken english.
Do our duty with positive attitude.
Do our duty with more confidence
that makes the person with good personality
improve ur english it gives u confidence
Pls help me, i'm confronted with the problem of inferiority complex, poor communication skill & phobia.