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How to Improve Your Personality?

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improve yourselfThere are few among us who don’t strive every day to improve their personality.

The ways we try to improve ourselves may range from minor external changes, such as a new suit or a new look, to more serious internal changes, as we try to improve our outlook on life or our ability to interact with other people.

The latter, obviously, are more difficult than, say, going to the hair salon.

Still, it’s not unrealistic to try to improve your character and personality. Below are just a few easy tips on how you can improve your personality:

1. Find qualities in those around you.

Look at everyone around you and find something to like about them. What makes this person likeable or admirable? What attaches you to them? Let them know about it, and boost their self-esteem. Meanwhile, try to promote those qualities in yourself as well.

2. There’s a lot to like about you, too.

Don’t forget that you’re interesting and admirable yourself. There’s nothing wrong with patting yourself on the back occasionally, since it can help us approach other people. Make it a foregone conclusion that other people should enjoy interacting with you. (how to do this?)

3. We all have our flaws.

That includes you! No one is perfect, and simply admitting that fact can be a huge step. If we are too hard on ourselves, or complete perfectionists, we can often do more harm than good.

4. Mingle with positive thinkers.

The last thing you need when trying to improve yourself are people who think improvement is impossible, who look at the entire world, at themselves, and at you, with nothing but pessimism. Choose your company wisely; their own outlook will affect your attitude towards life. Find friends who will build you up, not burden you with doubts.

5. People are interesting.

It’s a simple fact that bears repeating: you can find something interesting about almost anyone, even those who seem ordinary at first glance. Each person is a universe. Show genuine curiosity about the people you meet!

6. Embrace the new.

Don’t let yourself stagnate. Always make a point of exploring new things, and you’ll discover unexpected talents and qualities in yourself. Take up a new hobby, or open an unfamiliar book. Take a dance class. The possibilities are endless.

7. Set out for uncharted territory.

Go explore a new part of the world. Sometimes a change of scenery can offer a fresh perspective on ourselves, and on life. Go somewhere you’ve never been, or redecorate your home.

These are just a few techniques for improving your personality. Self-improvement is a constant process; you’ll never wake up one morning and realize that you’re perfect. Growth is an ongoing part of life.

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Tags: personal development, personal growth, self growth, self help, self improvement

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April 14, 2009
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sangita singh @ 11:21 pm #

please give me somes tips. to how to improve my personality.
my post is recepitiniost.

April 30, 2009
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tassawar Ali @ 6:51 am #

Besides tips mentioned above , i would like to add following contribution
concentrate on one task at a time.
improve ur communication skill
participate n religious activities and literay functons
read poetry, comarative study of religion, study history
try to spend time with elders of the family, u will learn a lot from their experiences
have regular sports
use strong phrases of local language while speaking english

May 10, 2009
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Sikchha Agrawal @ 5:50 am #

Hello, actually i want to know that how am i improve my personality and how to improve spoken english. Plz give me suggestion for improve my personality and spoken english. thank you

May 11, 2009
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Kaled @ 3:10 am #

Hey there Sikchha…

Well, for improving your personality, you got this website. Spend sometime around and you’re guaranteed to find helpful information.

http://successelixir.net

For English improvement, I’m not the right guy for that, but see this comment I wrote to another reader:

There’re many options. I think it’s case-by-case. If you have time & money, studying English @ Australia, UK or New Zealand for 6 months to a year would be enough mostly.

But if you’re a student or on 9-5 daily job, you have to seek other options. You can attend local English class, find a native-English teacher to teach ya one-to-one or use online courses at inistitutes & universities. Is that enough?

Do ya know anyone who is very good at English? ask him how he did it & just do as he did. Simple? yes, but it takes time.

Hope that helps.

Thanks for passing by.

Kaled

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July 8, 2009
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Abid Ali @ 10:49 am #

these tips are very good

August 7, 2009
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Syvila @ 8:03 am #

these tips are very good.I think everyone should improve our personality.Let’s go!

October 27, 2009
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Harry John @ 4:10 am #

No doubt these tips are good to improve your personality but one basic tip is missing and that is your “dress”. How you dress up, what colours your wear, combinition between your suite and neck ties, creasless shirt and so on. Your personality’s first impression is your dress and a sweet smile on your face. Also the way you walk – the more grecefully you walk, the more impressing you will look. Your hair nicly combed, your shoes shinning and a nice perfume on your dress. Keep adding and you can find more and more ways to improve your personality.

December 21, 2009
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vikas @ 5:45 am #

i read all t tips given in this site all also implement in myself and i see myself that my self confidance had improved and i see that people around me happy with me. my friends like my company and try to come with me . so no doubt this tips are very good to improve to our personalty.

December 30, 2009
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Rizwan Shah @ 2:27 pm #

these are very good tips\ comment for improving personality. i will just say every one should follow/act on it.

Rizwan Shah form Karachi Pakistan

January 6, 2010
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krishnaveni.K @ 3:18 am #

Your Tips Are Very Super.And How Improve Our Speech Style.

January 25, 2010
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sureshh @ 10:29 am #

Pls give me some advice to develop personalty

January 29, 2010
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parth @ 12:13 am #

Hello, actually i want to know that how am i improve my personality and how to improve spoken english. Plz give me suggestion for improve my personality and spoken english. thank you

January 30, 2010
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Taruna @ 5:59 am #

please give me somes tips. to how to improve my personality.
my post is recepitiniost

February 2, 2010
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nadeem @ 1:46 pm #

i can,t talk in front of people what should i do

February 3, 2010
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deepak @ 11:56 pm #

@parth: english comes by speaking with out hesitation. try to speak your self standing in front of mirror. you can develop slowly. read new words and try to frame sentences with new words.

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